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Sunday, March 8, 2009 @ 8:53 AM
three components are fundamental to becoming a universally attractive guy or girl...be happy ..
be busy
and be present
be happy... does not mean always smiley and giddy
does not mean aint concerned about environmental degradation...
does not mean being without ambition or being complacent....
rather ... on the one hand
it requires a deep self contentment...
satisfied with where life is now
how far you have gone..
and where you are heading to
have come to terms with the mistakes in the past
appreciate the past triumphs
content with the progress of the relationship you have with people
and well value other areas of your life
if you are not contented with yourself
and are not passionate about how you spend the time
its the first thing that you have to change
even if you dont like yourself
dont like your own life
you still have to live with it
how can a attractive person
be attracted to a opposite gender
and be part of the life
when the person does not even love or like his own life
attractive people have confidence in themselves...
and it has nothing to do with looks or jobs...
more likely its like they themselves simply feel good about themselves
and well this makes them more intensely desirable...
secondly.. be busy
be passionate and have things to do and to love
develop new hobbies
new interests
attractive people have like a full schedule packed with activities and events
that they would enjoy
busy people dont have to rush to return phone calls
turn down phone calls in a nice way...
and well dont have time to accept all the activities and events available to them
third... be present
no matter how busy
make time for social events
dont buried in work
take time out
and make new friends
maintain healthy social life
party away
have at least on social life event or activity per week
go to single parties
gather friends out for a outing
take up a new hobby
broaden horizons
and practice social skills
main thing
be happy..
be busy
be present
and be healthy and sporty